To set yourself on fire you need to find courage to fight yourself out of misery. Without courage you may feel that you’re lost and lacking identity. It’s scary and it takes courage to listen for new answers.
Make a Decision.
You must make the personal decision to listen to yourself, over others. Learn to trust your inner voice that you hear. Every single day keep reminding yourself that it is hard work but worth it.
Dare to Do It.
As you’re reminding yourself mentally, dare to take action. Even taking one small action step at a time. When it gets scary – Push yourself to get up and Go! Keep moving forward and those sparks with set you on fire.